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There are several ways for a person who has been sexually assaulted or abused to be a supportive friend or ally. These include raising awareness, shouting when you see or hear suspicious, risky, or dangerous behavior; empathizing with survivors.
Ramis Banuri, 19, of Salt Lake City, Utah, said he made a loud noise when he could, trying to get others to do the same. “People do not have to intervene, because there is a notion that it is not your business, they do not want to be ashamed if they misread the situation,” he said. “I tell them, ‘Would you rather be embarrassed for a moment about a small situation that no one really remembers, or do you apologize because you were right? You could have prevented someone from getting hurt.’
The intervention of a bystander is a strategy to prevent harassment from occurring or to continue. The goal is to prevent what appears to be a stressful moment before the situation can escalate. Each situation is different և there is no և intervention, but here are some Green Dot program guidelines that are widely used by the observer intervention training system that encourages people to act using what is called Three D.
Simply the intervention is direct. If someone uses sexist language or makes someone uncomfortable with sexual comments or jokes, you can say: Stop! ” Or “You had too much to drink. You can no longer think of hunting! “Let’s bring you home.”
You can also interrupt the risky dynamics Dispersion. If someone makes someone else uncomfortable with their attention, you can say: “Hey, guys, they’re looking for you inside!” “Let’s see what it is.”
In other situations you can: delegate someone else who has more training, authority or social leverage և can intervene more effectively.
If you see someone you do not know well doing something wrong, tell the people they came with և Encourage them to intervene. If you see couples fighting, they seem to be getting physical, find a trusted adult or reputable figure or call the police.